8,001 Letters and Emails Sent So Far
We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men’s lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.
Someone from Woodland, CA writes:
i myself falsely accused my boyfriend of hitting me when we’d gotten into an argument about his drug use hoping to scare him into getting back to rehab and focusing again on getting clean, something i know he wants. i was very ignorant of the horrible laws and persecution of domestic violence offenders, that i had absolutely no voice and that the DA could do whatever they damn well pleased with no input from me. he has never laid a finger on me and i have never feared this man but was frustrated about getting someone to help me get him to listen and divert his attention from the path he was on. i tried to redact my statement but was manipulated and, i feel my rights purposefully overlooked and denied, was lied to, ignored, and that even my original statements were embellished and purposefully fabricated and the statements contained outright lies about what i said, all in an effort to rack up yet another persecution of an innocent man. with no regard or input from either of us. although this was my own fault for ignorantly and naively making false statements out of desperation, i am angry, bitter, distrustful and completely disallusioned of my government. when trying to set things right, i was even told numerous times by both the DA and the public defender that “women redact all the time”, an argument i equate to saying that women are asking for it if they are raped or that all young men are automatically guilty if accused of statuatory rape. i will continue to fight this on every level. i have no prior legal experience as i am a law abiding citizen with no criminal history or involvement and to say i am now thoroughly disgusted with and distrustful of our judicial system and the autonomy in power they yield without any deference for the citizens involved is an understatement. my complete disappointment and disgust can not be expressed. if i can do this, so can many other women and we need to make unsuspecting citizens aware and make singly focused prosecutors culpable for not being thorough, ethical and responsible in carrying out justice. i am sick and depressed over this entire experience and would like to find other women like me to discuss how to address not only the injustice handed down but all of the manipulation of me, the blatant lies contained in the police reports that have gone uninvestigated and the violations of my rights by our judicial system throughout this process. i need help. my boyfriend was sentenced to 10 years and i’ve been flat out told “its too late. its all based on his past records”. this is a man who has a drug problem but has sincerely been working to address it and get it under control and turn his life around for over two years since his release from prison and they that easily throw him back in and throw away the key. its disgusting……
david c. from Menifee, CA writes:
After three years of marriage dealing with my ex wifes anger issues and delusional conclusions we had an amicable divorce.So i thought. I was consistent in my sons life since his birth I was paying all insurance and dental and was providing for his basic needs. when my son turned three years of age I remarried. One month later I was charged with domestic violence on her false allegations, she stated I was threatening her and attempting to kidnap my child. On my weekend I went to pick him up and she attacked me in front of him, she filed a DV and temporary restraining order. She stated he was sick and I had no rights to my visits when he is sick. I had witnesses in the car who called the cops while she was striking me the cops arrived and said it was a civil matter. The court deemed it a domestic violence case because she took a picture of her neck which had a scratch she claimed i did and i lost my 50% legal custody 35% joint physical custody. In court they gave her 100% custody and made my child support go up significantly to the point i could not afford an attorney. It has been three years of court proceedings.
I love and miss my son. Men have lost our right to be inclusive, and consistent fathers, because of our so called aggressive nature. I have been falsely accused of domestic violence due to a spiteful and vindictive ex-wife. My son is suffering under her care and recently has been diagnosed with type 2 diabetes and PTSD because she lives a sedentary lifestyle and he knows his mom has lied about me. Is their any common sense to these actions. If we would like to decrease the 79% of criminals in jails who state if their fathers were in their lives they would not have committed the amount of crimes they had.It needs to start now before more delusional monetary motivated women continue to manipulate the system voiding fathers rights within the family infrastructure..please help American Fathers need equal Justice with their children.
Michael O. from Scappoose, OR writes:
I have a very deceptive and vindictive ex wife who for the last twenty one years has filed false abuse alegations against me as a farger. Noe continuing as a grandparent she made a new false misrepresentation to cps and now I can have no contact with any of my grandchildren. You may call me at 503-543-2715 for more details
Herman S. from Mill Hall, PA writes:
It has been 15 months that this has been going on. My wife is aa elementary school teacher. Her lesbian lover was a school teacher (until she got fired).
My wife’s lover was charged at least twice for beating up her ex and had a PFA against her.
They tried moving the girl friend into our house, but I put a stop to it. That is when they came up with the plan of telling all of these lies about me and filing a PFA on me.
My wife had a good woman Lawyer, and a woman Judge. 18 months not allowed to go to my house or my kids school. All of my stuff there with them and my in laws going through it and getting rid of my stuff and our marriage property.
The Hell that I have been going through and they have my home and the girl friend’s home. Oh forgot that the girl friend’s ex was found dead in their home and now she has that house.
A Law that was meant to protect the abuse and is being abused for selfish, people and Judges that seem to have to much power and not enough information.
daniel s. from San Antonio, TX writes:
my life has been ruined without any proof, based on lies and a vendictive person who I once thought I knew. Just cause money is more important. Howe can this be justice??
Nolan S. from Petaluma, CA writes:
I am doing everything I can not to be a complete victim in an ongoing Civil Domestic Violence Case reported by my soon to be ex-wife. As I was leaving her, her final re-course was to claim domestic violence and is currently attempting to use the law as sword against me. I am in the military (deployed once)and will potentially lose everything I have worked for, for the past 12 years. What women are being given the right of control. The real victims use it correctly. The victimless women are destroying men through use of the law. I believe I will win the case placed against me however even if I should win I cannot begin to describe the amount of loss I have already suffered within the past 6 months. If I should lose then for all intensive purposes I am just a statistic. Hopefully one that will one day make a difference in this battle against the wrongly accused.
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2 hours ago link Someone from Allen, TX writes:
Violence Against Women Act is very tyrannical – the feminists agenda only did this to set us women back. The families of these men accused also suffer. There are very few women who could benefit but all the frivulous accusations takes resources away from where it is really needed.
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3 hours ago link Someone from Lees Summit, MO writes:
Wife taunted me to get me upset. She filed an ex-parte with mostly false statements. The only actual thing I’m guilty of is yelling at her because she is having an affair. Lawyer advised against fighting because I won’t have a chance. Lost everything. I have 1 shirt and 1 pair of pants. The small business I ran from home, closed and I lost thousands of dollars worth of parts my customer cancelled because I couldn’t get back into my house to get the parts. I used up all of my money discussing alternatives with my lawyer and now I can’t afford to contiue paying them for the divorce.
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7 hours ago link Someone from Crystal Lake, IL signed.
10 hours ago link Frederick W. from Covington, LA writes:
I have been falsely accused of domestic violence in order to take custody of my daughter discredit me, manipulate the judges with lies and deceptions paining a picture of good men to be monsters with lies when I told my girlfriend that I would go for custody she falsely accused me of domestic violence, she ruined my life my career and I cannot even buy a gun, I believe that the Illuminati secret back door deals to not allow men to have guns, gun control, our government now is not honest and now I see why so many have lost their rights through corrupt courts, convicting men with no evidence…I have never in my life hit a woman left a bruise or any thing why cant I buy a gun…This is against my rights as an American, and another false flag event with an agenda.. Lost jobs, lost millions of dollars in income, because of an secret agenda to take guns away, I would and could never hurt anyone, I love people and I am a man, GOD says protector of my family, so because of a lie with no evidence I cannot protect my family.. And once you have the reputation of Violence everyone treats you poorly, lost all my friends, all because of a lie and the lawyers influence women to do this in divorces and custody..I am convinced this agenda is the same agenda as OBAMA, take guns from men, divide the families as Rockefeller was accused of in women’s rights movement, http://youtu.be/sBSiAALhjzE
Someone in congress needs to take a stand against our 2nd amendment rights being taken away by evil judges and lawyers lying in court, convincing men to pleed guilty and it’s no big deal..This ruined my life, took me from being highly respected in my work force to not wanted at all.. Now I cannot buy a gun during a tyrannical time in our history the picture is very clear to me now.. JFK wanted to expose these criminal elements in our politics…Please someone take a stand please…
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1 day ago link Katherine B. from Atlanta, GA signed.
1 day ago link Someone from Belgrade, MT signed.
1 day ago link Someone from Arlington, WA writes:
This was signed for every person falsly accused in divorce court of abuse..anytime someone is going to claim abuse, it needs to be supported with evidence!
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1 day ago link Kelli S. from Houlton, ME writes:
This law has long been abused , Judges sign any order without justification. When in court it does not matter what proof a person has, it is prosecuted, like getting cotten candy at the fair, but much cheaper, get it and enjpoy nit
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1 day ago link Daniel G. from Lititz, PA writes:
Everyone here seems to be mystified by the surreal events they have experienced, only to find out how commonplace it is, that the system is so easily manipulated by the wolf (whether it be the mother or father). It’s simply because it is in the county’s best interest. Get to know the social security acts. If you don’t know, the Social Security Act is much more than just your dwindling retirement check. It funds these programs. Just Google the social security act and domestic violence, it’s all readable. You’ll also notice that most of the funding revolves around correcting fatherhood. How outdated is that in the age of equality for all?
You were raised to understand the three branches of federal government right? It keeps things balanced right? At the county level, there are thousands and millions of federal and state dollars awarded to a county to fund programs that attempt to alleviate these raging social ills. Domestic Violence is just one of many, but probably the most funded. For example, there are also federal and state funds awarded for child support collection. These dollars are then dispersed as the county sees fit. The county does not get money for non-collection of child support, equal custody doesn’t pay as well, and they don’t get money for exploring false allegations and the prosecution of liars. They must keep their numbers high. The kids are job security, collateral damage of the process, ensuring the next generation of judges and lawyers are gainfully employed. The kids will grow up and repeat the cycle. It is a self-perpetuating system. So back to a balanced justice system – you just won’t find it because the county pays the judge, and the judge keeps the county funded, so to speak.
Isn’t it obvious that the counties have motive to side with the least responsible parent? After all, that parent will need to access all the food stamps, heating assistance, housing, and every other program that will refill the county coffers. But don’t worry, you’ll likely find it difficult to find hard numbers on any of these things, such as the number of domestic violence reports, those reports confirmed, PFA’s issued, and PFA’s then dropped.
I will say and acknowledge that there are people that need help and thank goodness there is a service to protect the innocent. However, it is overwhelmingly obvious to the public eye that these programs share little interest in protecting fathers or employing a process like mandatory counseling and a psych evaluation on the accuser, some way of vetting the accusations before throwing a person’s life in the sewer.
Any county agency can read this and scoff and accuse me shooting off my mouth, but isn’t it still my constitutional right to express my opinion, knowledge, and experiences? Have a great day.
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2 days ago link Someone from Pomona, CA writes:
My boyfriend of 71/2 years is currently up against a false domestic violence felony charge. the evening that the incidence occurred my boyfriend and my self and two of his friends were drinking heavily I fell and got hurt after while there was an altercation between my boy friend and his friend. his friend had his girl friend call the police. his friend was propositioning us earlier and said that my boyfriend hurt me. I was no where near them when I got hurt. I tripped and fell on the hard tile floor and hit my head and cut it open. they took his word over mine and they arrested my boyfriend and they are charging him with felony DV with corporal injury. They have placed an order of protection against him to protect me but from what he did not do anything to me!!!! they have taken my voice away I had to hire an attorney to fight the restraining order. the state has been treating me like I am some sort of dullard or child that can’t make decisions for my self and I am 40 years old I don’t want to press charges I have not been victimized by my boyfriend; however I have been victimized by the state judicial system. I don’t need the state to act like I am a child and it is my parents this is a very sexist attitude which makes me feel like because I am a woman I can’t decide what is good for me or I don’t know what I want to do. It all reminds me of a song from no doubt Just a girl
“Just A Girl”
Take this pink ribbon off my eyes
I’m exposed
And it’s no big surprise
Don’t you think I know
Exactly where I stand
This world is forcing me
To hold your hand
‘Cause I’m just a girl, little ‘ol me
Don’t let me out of your sight
I’m just a girl, all pretty and petite
So don’t let me have any rights
Oh…I’ve had it up to here!
The moment that I step outside
So many reasons
For me to run and hide
I can’t do the little things I hold so dear
‘Cause it’s all those little things
That I fear
‘Cause I’m just a girl I’d rather not be
‘Cause they won’t let me drive
Late at night I’m just a girl,
Guess I’m some kind of freak
‘Cause they all sit and stare
With their eyes
I’m just a girl,
Take a good look at me
Just your typical prototype
Oh…I’ve had it up to here!
Oh…am I making myself clear?
I’m just a girl
I’m just a girl in the world…
That’s all that you’ll let me be!
I’m just a girl, living in captivity
Your rule of thumb
Makes me worry some
I’m just a girl, what’s my destiny?
What I’ve succumbed to Is making me numb
I’m just a girl, my apologies
What I’ve become is so burdensome
I’m just a girl, lucky me
Twiddle-dum there’s no comparison
Oh…I’ve had it up to!
Oh…I’ve had it up to!!
Oh…I’ve had it up to here!
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2 days ago link Laura C. from Raleigh, NC signed.
2 days ago link christian l. from Inglewood, CA signed.
2 days ago link Someone from Springfield, PA signed.
2 days ago link Ryan C. from Santa Clara, CA writes:
I have had family in law enforcement all my life and an uncle that headed the domestic violence unit. I would never put my hands on a woman yet the police and courts have taken bogus statements from my soon to be ex wife twice and have had to deal with domestic violence allegations and fight for my life. This needs to stop. There are many women and men that need legit orders. But the women that go in and say he raised his voice at me or texted me some not very nice things is outragous and must stop.
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2 days ago link Jenna H. from Beverly, MA signed.
3 days ago link Kim H. from Fayetteville, AR writes:
My nephew has been in the fight of his life to protect his children from a woman diagnosed with a personality disorder. Due to the incredible web of deception this woman has woven, the four children have suffered incarcerations, hospitalizations, visits with numerous counselors and therapists, medications, blocked visits with father, etc. The mental health professionals engaged thus far have fact checked and verified nothing. In essence, the children’s voices have been silenced, my nephew has been painted as a vile, evil man, and she receives approximately $2,500 a month in SSI for herself and the children, food stamps, Medicaid, and child support from two fathers. Ladies and gentlemen, what is wrong with this picture?
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3 days ago link Kathy S. from Lakeview, AR writes:
My ex-daughter-in-law who has a severe personality disorder ran away with my 4 grandchildren over a year ago. She and her friend have lied repeatedly to the police and the judge. She has put 1 child in jail twice and 2 children in psychiatric hospital twice, the last time for 3-6 months. My son has physical black & white hard copy proof of her lies, but she is still getting away w/ things because she lied to get a protective order. My grandchildren and my son are being severely traumatized because of the flaw in the system that assumes all men guilty until proven innocent…which they don’t allow to be proven. My 79-year old mother has fallen apart over this.
Having been physically, verbally, and mentally abused myself, I do feel for other people who are abused; however, it’s time to realize that women aren’t the only people who are abused…men are abused, also.
The shelters and counselors she ran to and lied to did nothing to verify her statements. They would not listen to my grandchildren (18,11,10,9), all of whom told the truth which countered what their mother said. It’s not like these kids could’ve orchestrated and coordinated their stories because the
18-yr old has autism.
My son wasn’t allowed to see his children for 9 mos because of her lies. We didn’t know where they were for several months. Visitation was very limited at first (5 hrs on every other Saturday, supervised by his sister) because of her lies.
She placed the now 12-yr old in psychiatric hospital 10 days before custody hearing so he wouldn’t be present to testify/talk to the judge to keep the judge from awarding custody to their father. The children will tell you they’re only a meal ticket for their mom. Their mom is very, very verbally and somewhat physically abusive, but no one listens to the children or to their father. She was like this when they were together, but HE is the one who was accused of domestic abuse. Go figure!
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3 days ago link Mary M. R. from Las Vegas, NV signed.
3 days ago link Butch C. from Deland, FL writes:
I have been a victim of this more than once by the same woman. She is the mother of my kids and mentally unbalanced by choice. ( I once caught her online looking at the DSM for mental disorders that that within the description stated one may be unable to hold a job. So she automatically contract the illness in order to avoid her financial responsibilities and sit at home and do nothing at all including taking good care of the home.) So when she didn’t get her way she was taught by women in Alanon and AA how to make false reports. This was done one time by her calling Child & Family Services in order to get me kicked out of the house I own and have it to herself and her new boyfriend she was seeing behind my back. It didn’t work, and by a certain thing that was stated in the report, I knew she had made the anonymous call. This instance sticks out yet there others before and after at which I could fill out a few pages of stories.
What is also ironic is that these false reports were also made in other mens homes that went to AA meetings at the same group I did. I n my other cases and cases of my buddies we were sometimes taken to jail, were not allowed back in our homes, restricted from seeing our children, and suffered humiliation from people who drew conclusions without knowing the full story. Thus we are convicted without even having a trial in both the public and the courts eyes.
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3 days ago link nathan s. from Midway, AR signed.
3 days ago link Deleores S. from Bend, OR writes:
I have watched my son be accused the night he was leaving his wife. The system needs to be changed, this law needs to be revisited and have penalties for the accuser that has made false charges.
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3 days ago link Kelly G. from Victor, IA writes:
It is called the Preponderance of the evidence…weakest law in America and it sucks big time. the weak Neurotic Judges cannot understand this, or is there a card game being played under the table with the attorneys and the judges.
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4 days ago link Susan A. from Jacksonville, FL signed.
4 days ago link Dorothy A. from Orange Lake, FL writes:
They lie to get the 1500.00 in marion county florida even positive drug screens are over looked
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5 days ago link Someone from Athol, MA signed.
5 days ago link Kofi A. from Bronx, NY signed.
6 days ago link James T. from Mount Vernon, WA writes:
To Kill a Mockingbird needs a sequel but can’t think of a happy ending yet. All I can say, it’s a finite life…and life ain’t always fair, at least not this side of eternity.
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6 days ago link Mary L. from Pinehurst, NC writes:
I have seen domestic Violence charges used by an attorney in florida against a man from Minn. A man she knew was a member of the media and she willingly talked with him, called, emailed etc. When the man began to disclose her information online articles and in a book. She could not file a lawsuit, therefore she filed domestic violence charges against him in Florida in a divorce court action, obtaining a restraining order against said man, his having to removed all damaging information on said attorney from the internet. the man has never met this attorney in person, they did not have a relationship. Never married. Yet, this attorney continues to go after this man with any and every legal aspect she can. This is abuse of the domestic violence laws. And this man has no recourse in this action. Yet the harassment and threats towards him was never investigated.
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6 days ago link Someone from Kansas City, KS writes:
guys are always the ones getting accused when there are lots of woman that are the attackers also. the law needs to be reformed to where its fair on both sides nd they both face the same punishment!!!!
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6 days ago link Someone from Kansas City, KS writes:
guys are always the ones getting accused when there are lots of woman that are the attackers also. the law needs to be reformed to where its fair on both sides nd they both face the same punishment!!!!
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6 days ago link Someone from Kansas City, KS writes:
guys are always the ones getting accused when there are lots of woman that are the attackers also. the law needs to be reformed to where its fair on both sides nd they both face the same punishment!!!!
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6 days ago link CRYSTAL J. from Staten Island, NY signed.
January 21, 2013 link Someone from Fairfield, AL writes:
My daughter’s mother filed a false pfa against me in 2011 which was dismissed and now she threatens me with filing another one when she doesn’t get her way. Because of the charge my criminal record has been tarnished and this charge caused me to lose a job I applied for. This fact that counties let women file these pfa’s and do not ask for proof of abuse is unfair and it needs to stop. I believe the counties that are allowing these women to file false reports should be held responsible when the victim is found innocent, and the accuser should pay attorney fees, or if possible sue the county for time lost from work, attorney fees, and emotional distress.
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January 21, 2013 link Someone from Fontana, CA writes:
The laws do need to have something regarding burden of proof. My son is going through this now due to the girls vindictive mental state. There has to be proof before arrest charges !
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January 21, 2013 link Ron J. from Saint Charles, IL signed.
January 21, 2013 link Linda J. from Saint Charles, IL signed.
January 20, 2013 link Kathy M. from Colorado Springs, CO signed.
January 20, 2013 link Someone from Wyoming, MI writes:
Be careful everyone! Not just men… I understand that it is easier for a woman to get away with false accusations. But my ex boyfriend assaulted me & quickly called police to report that I had “assaulted” him. His roommate was there and went along with the fabricated story that he told her to. He made false accusations to avoid being charged with the assault that he in fact did commit against me. I am awaiting trial now & hoping that I am found INNOCENT, as I did not assault him. It’s not just Crazy woman that make these false accusations. The laws are not effective whatsoever, if anyone can make false accusations & waste a lot of people’s time and taxpayers money, etc., and they are not punished for false police report or perjury.
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January 20, 2013 link Matthew B. from Lynchburg, VA signed.
January 19, 2013 link John B. from Brooklyn, NY signed.
January 19, 2013 link Steven C. from Vista, CA writes:
Home Invasion, Constitutional Rights are ignored, Heresay-or whatever is considered proof and then cover-ups from every Agency to support the $100 BILLION every year to keep the FAM/CRIM/CHILD CARE afloat. Support ‘Shared Parenting’ and this system will go away!!!! Mention Shared Parenting-Govt ONLY gets minimal power over fam. Will probably lower the Real Abuse that women Really do suffer. Mention Shared Parenting and see the reaction. Incredible, I have made the Lawyers knees knock, the Sheriff’s laugh and the judges suggest Jail terms.??? Shared Parenting-found in only one State, Iowa-but what do they know about American Culture!
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January 19, 2013 link Scott S. from Ione, CA writes:
Cops are sent to a domestic call with an arrest mandatory. Also no matter what even if you push your female away as she’s hitting you then you are charged with assault.. There is no equality. It’s all geared for the man to go to jail for a felony. Even if you leave a slight bruise it’s a felony. But she won’t get charged for punching you..
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January 18, 2013 link Ryan B. from Moorhead, MN signed.
January 18, 2013 link Gary L. from Anchorage, AK signed.
January 18, 2013 link SeDarrian H. from Conyers, GA writes:
I was placed into a similar situation, all b/c an EX became infuriated that I was communicated with a woman she was jealous of. Something has to be done, when women know they have the power to abuse the judicial system.
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January 18, 2013 link GREGORY H. from San Antonio, TX writes:
all it took for me to get arrested was demetria elaine adams to accuse me. even though i was no where close to her residence. there was no investigation performed. i aws placed into county custody . taken to court three times and was expected to plead guilty or no contest by the state in order to get a conviction. guilt or innocence was of no matter in my case. this was all fabricated in in order for my son’s mother to have my rights legally taken away from me
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January 17, 2013 link Rodney S. from Jacksboro, TN signed.
January 17, 2013 link J S. from Irvine, CA writes:
Be careful guys, an emotionally unstable girl just pulled this dv bs on me after I left her place saying we were over. Hell hath no furry like a womans scorned. Hopefully nothing will get filed, even being charged with such a disgusting crime would be horrendous.
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January 17, 2013 link Someone from Garden City, KS writes:
Was accused of dv and Agg assault after I told my ex.wife I didn’t want to be.with her anymore. Said I pointed the gun I was cleaning at her. She told them this after I called the cops when she was trying to kidnap my son. SHe was hysterical and trying to take him so the cops.were called.by me. Her mom walks in my apt and also.accuses me even though the gun was put away. They had no evidence or marks on her. And I was forced to take a plea because every time we went to court she would make up more crap. I supposedly beat her everyday when I never laid a hand on her. I’m the one with scars from her crazy actions. So because of her petty revenge I’ve had all ky firearms stolen by the cops.and ky clean record is trashed. Why can they get away with.this? My attorney said hearsay works for the so.called “victim” but a man needs a mountain of evidence and still gets convicted 80% of the time. This is not right.
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January 17, 2013 link Janice P. from Dubuque, IA signed.
January 17, 2013 link Sarina C. from Ashtabula, OH signed.
January 17, 2013 link Kelly S. from Linden, PA signed.
January 16, 2013 link David B. from Cedar Rapids, IA writes:
If anyone is interested I have a dandy of a case. I have yet to read one as bad as mine. Never once even accused of domestic violence. Three years now my life has been hell. Over and over again without any evidence what so ever none I get screwed. The only time I win is jury trials . Thats right trial(s) oh yeah more than one… e mail me I will tell my jaw dropping story
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January 16, 2013 link christopher w. from Riverside, CA signed.
January 16, 2013 link Luisfernando E. from El Cajon, CA writes:
I have experience with this. I am 20 years old and had a good relationship with my ex. We dated for 6 years and now have a two year old son. Seven months ago she abandoned both me and the baby, sh came to see him a grand total of ZERO times, i would text her every day to let her know how he was doing. Finally on december 11th we got back together, honestly the happiest day of my life apart from my sons birth. Well two weeks later she starts yelling at me and i simply walk away. She then has yhe odacity to call the cops on me, tell them that i kidnapped the baby, and that i hit her on her “upper left arm.” Then in court im reading her declaration and its all full of lies. She stated that my mother would hold her down while i slapped her across the face. Ovbiously the judge believed her being that i am a 6’3 280lb “big guy” but i definitlet got a kick out of it when i read that i left a sore arm but no marks… These people are just immature “adult” children that ovbiously dont have the justification to prove that they are mature enough to care for their kid or mature enough to admit that their ex-partner is doing better without them than they are.
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January 16, 2013 link Someone from Albany, NY signed.
January 16, 2013 link Someone from Matawan, NJ signed.
January 15, 2013 link TOMMY T. from El Segundo, CA signed.
January 15, 2013 link Thomas H. from El Segundo, CA signed.
January 15, 2013 link kathy G. from Des Moines, IA writes:
My husband Robert has been accused of the worst crime against a man. His ex wife has accused him of abuse with no proof what so ever. It was granted and deemed true with no police record, no witness , nothing. He had his children taken away ( ripped away) for no reason just for a malicious reason to get the upper hand in a divorce and custody battle . This was 6 years ago and still continues to go on this very day. We recently told her we planned a visit to see the children…..So of course she ran to the Florida sheriffs department and claimed my husband called her and threatened to “kill her”. So now there is a criminal warrant for my husbands arrest in the State of Florida. All she has to do is say it. It was a civil injunction and modified by the Judge. ( Judge Wolfe) St Augustine Fl. And now it turned into a criminal injunction , She claimed she has no knowledge where my husband can be contacted ( he calls his kids every week) and she calls our number continuously so she knows the contact info. But it does not matter because there is still a warrant and they believe her story. She taunts my husband by emailing and calling to the point where I had to block her number and email address. She is mentally ill and had the kids taken away from her for brain washing , alienation , drug abuse, and child abuse. We had custody for over a year until the judge thought she deserved a second chance. Now it’s back to where it all started !!!! The laws need to change…. false allegations of abuse is out of control in our country. And used by evil people to get the upper hand and control. The kids are in the middle of this and they are the ones who suffer the MOST.
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January 15, 2013 link Roxanne C. from Crystal Lake, IL writes:
I was fausley accused and might lose everything. Very Scared
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January 15, 2013 link John C. from Ravenswood, WV writes:
I have been falsely accused of domestic violence and a threat all because I am supposedly “bi-polar” I have went through psychological evaluations even stating I’m not bi-polar…but because i had never met my son at the time they stated i was because i couldn’t answer the questions. The mother states I am a threat to her and my child…without solid evidence. They are using all hear say. Which is being used against me. But the judge will not take any evidence from me whether i have solid proof or not. Now i have another child with my fiance which i have been with for almost 3 years now…and the judge sent cps after her all because of my ex’s false allegations and hear say. The judge is breaking the 11th amendment by gender because shes for women rights…and using bipolar, which is considered Disability Discrimination Act. Any time i bring in papers from attorneys, doctors, psychologist, ect they throw it in the trash. I have a restraining order on me from my ex because they are stating I’m a threat because I’m bipolar when i only had bipolar as a child and the psychologist states i am no longer bipolar….we have been followed for 2 months no matter where we go from cps trying to take my children away because of the mothers false allegations and the judges intentions of strictly being for woman rights….This False Allegations of Domestic Violence Has got to STOP!
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January 15, 2013 link Christy F. from Pen Argyl, PA signed.
January 14, 2013 link Mark H. from Manassas, VA writes:
I have been falsely arrested and convicted of domestic violence 4 TIMES. ALL BY THE SAME INDIVIDUAL. Who would call the police and have me hauled away and charged to move new men into the house. I was convicted with NO EVIDENCE. Literally her word against mine. Something is JUST WRONG ABOUT THIS. I intend to take all four cases to the public and hopefully start expungement hearings.
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January 14, 2013 link Someone from Smiths Grove, KY writes:
I am a MOTHER that left her very unfaithful husband in 2004. We have a now 12 yr old son together, joint custody but father has primary custodial care. Since 2004 he has successfully kept a DVO on me for 9 yrs based upon lies from the very beginning. I lost my son because it is so easy to just go down to the court house and fill out a DVO form put whatever you like on it like lies, he said/she saids and anything you can make up about the person you are trying to get in trouble. You get a court date that day and then it is in the judges hands the day of court wether they should believe that a DVO needs to be placed on the respondent. I understand that there are cases where actual domestic violence has occured and that the Judge must do their job to protect but in my case Judge Huddleston should have seen through the smoke and mirrors.
I am currently a VICTIM of misuse of the justice system by my ex husband being able to get a DVO placed on me so easy with no proof and then be granted extentions when nothing has happened during the 1 year or 3 years that the previous DVO has been active. He is clearly abusing the help that is out there for people who really need protection.
My sons life is being ruined because it is so easy for his father to use the DVO law to harrass me. This is all to keep me away from my son and to allow him to call police if he “happens” to see me in places in public and report that I was in the same place as him just to see if he can get me arrested. This has happened at McDonalds, Wal-Mart, gas stations and we live in a small town so it is hard not to be in the same place at the same time on occasion. If I see him I leave but these were all instances that I never saw him. When the police would show up each time they never arressted me because they could tell that my ex husband was only abusing the law.
I need help Congress! My son needs you’re help! Before he is a grown man I would like to see some sort of new law that would keep someone from being able to cry wolf at the domestic violence windows in our Justice Centers. I would like to see a law with a punishment if proven guilty of misuse or abuse of such things. Also there should be some stopping point at which a DVO or EPO can be in affect or be extened if the respondent party has complied for the whole term of each/any one DVO that had been granted. Like I said he has had one placed on me on and off for 9 years. He had a 1 year DVO placed on me in 2009. I was never in violation for this one. When it was time for that one to expire he wanted an extension and Judge Huddleston granted a 3 year DVO! It is almost time for this one to expire (June 21st 2013) I have complied for this entire time but he will ask for another. I am afraid that this will be granted again.
Please help congress. I know if this is happening to me this is happening to good people every where men and women alike. He has given me such a bad image and I am truely a good mom, person etc. There
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January 14, 2013 link Jocelyn J. L. from Manchester, NH writes:
I have been falsely accused of stalking a lunatic. I have been served with a restraining order for an entire year because i called her a “*****”! I am suppose to stay 100 yards or feet or whatever it is away from someone that lives in the same building as me! Heres the kicker we live in transitional housing so i share a tiny almost apartment with a girl and her son. i have my own bedroom and bathroom that i share with my three kids and then i share a common area with my roommate ( she is not the plaintiff). Heres the shocking part we all share a industrial size kitchen! So it is impossible to stay away! The organization that runs the program has backed me up 100% because they are well aware that this is just out of spite but the judge has refused to listen. I had the hearing pushed up sooner but because i was FIVE MINS late the judge granted the order even though there is nothing to justify this girls claims! I have absolutely no criminal record what so ever and have never been in any type of trouble unlike this psycho! Never once did the order state that she was scared for her life. I do not have her phone number or email! i have not gone to her apt. I have done nothing to be going through this! To make it worse 2 Hrs before i was served she lingered around the hallway on the floor i live on until they came and once the officers did come she stood there watching me get served with her arms folded across her chest and a smile on her face! i asked the officers to talk to me in my apt because i didnt want her to have any satisfaction and they refused not once not twice but three times. When she chimed in while they were speaking to me they did not tell her to go away but threatened to arrest me for disorderly conduct when i got upset and said why are u allowing her to listen?! does this sound like someone in fear of their life?!
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January 14, 2013 link Someone from Lyons, IL writes:
I’m a female and I don’t want to show my name out of fear of harmful retaliation from a female that has harmed my disabled brother both mentally and physically with her fraudulent criminal allegations for which he’s been in jail without a trial for a year now in Los Angeles.
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January 13, 2013 link Someone from Trumansburg, NY signed.
January 13, 2013 link Someone from Cherokee, NC signed.
January 13, 2013 link chad r. from Louisville, KY signed.
January 13, 2013 link Alice C. from Southport, NC signed.
January 13, 2013 link Someone from Doylestown, OH writes:
The premise of being guilty and having to be found innocent is against all that our constitution has provided for us.
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January 13, 2013 link Someone from Woodland, CA writes:
i myself falsely accused my boyfriend of hitting me when we’d gotten into an argument about his drug use hoping to scare him into getting back to rehab and focusing again on getting clean, something i know he wants. i was very ignorant of the horrible laws and persecution of domestic violence offenders, that i had absolutely no voice and that the DA could do whatever they damn well pleased with no input from me. he has never laid a finger on me and i have never feared this man but was frustrated about getting someone to help me get him to listen and divert his attention from the path he was on. i tried to redact my statement but was manipulated and, i feel my rights purposefully overlooked and denied, was lied to, ignored, and that even my original statements were embellished and purposefully fabricated and the statements contained outright lies about what i said, all in an effort to rack up yet another persecution of an innocent man. with no regard or input from either of us. although this was my own fault for ignorantly and naively making false statements out of desperation, i am angry, bitter, distrustful and completely disallusioned of my government. when trying to set things right, i was even told numerous times by both the DA and the public defender that “women redact all the time”, an argument i equate to saying that women are asking for it if they are raped or that all young men are automatically guilty if accused of statuatory rape. i will continue to fight this on every level. i have no prior legal experience as i am a law abiding citizen with no criminal history or involvement and to say i am now thoroughly disgusted with and distrustful of our judicial system and the autonomy in power they yield without any deference for the citizens involved is an understatement. my complete disappointment and disgust can not be expressed. if i can do this, so can many other women and we need to make unsuspecting citizens aware and make singly focused prosecutors culpable for not being thorough, ethical and responsible in carrying out justice. i am sick and depressed over this entire experience and would like to find other women like me to discuss how to address not only the injustice handed down but all of the manipulation of me, the blatant lies contained in the police reports that have gone uninvestigated and the violations of my rights by our judicial system throughout this process. i need help. my boyfriend was sentenced to 10 years and i’ve been flat out told “its too late. its all based on his past records”. this is a man who has a drug problem but has sincerely been working to address it and get it under control and turn his life around for over two years since his release from prison and they that easily throw him back in and throw away the key. its disgusting……
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January 13, 2013 link Someone from Woodland, CA writes:
i myself falsely accused my boyfriend of hitting me when we’d gotten into an argument about his drug use hoping to scare him into getting back to rehab and focusing again on getting clean, something i know he wants. i was very ignorant of the horrible laws and persecution of domestic violence offenders, that i had absolutely no voice and that the DA could do whatever they damn well pleased with no input from me. he has never laid a finger on me and i have never feared this man but was frustrated about getting someone to help me get him to listen and divert his attention from the path he was on. i tried to redact my statement but was manipulated and, i feel my rights purposefully overlooked and denied, was lied to, ignored, and that even my original statements were embellished and purposefully fabricated and the statements contained outright lies about what i said, all in an effort to rack up yet another persecution of an innocent man. with no regard or input from either of us. although this was my own fault for ignorantly and naively making false statements out of desperation, i am angry, bitter, distrustful and completely disallusioned of my government. when trying to set things right, i was even told numerous times by both the DA and the public defender that “women redact all the time”, an argument i equate to saying that women are asking for it if they are raped or that all young men are automatically guilty if accused of statuatory rape. i will continue to fight this on every level. i have no prior legal experience as i am a law abiding citizen with no criminal history or involvement and to say i am now thoroughly disgusted with and distrustful of our judicial system and the autonomy in power they yield without any deference for the citizens involved is an understatement. my complete disappointment and disgust can not be expressed. if i can do this, so can many other women and we need to make unsuspecting citizens aware and make singly focused prosecutors culpable for not being thorough, ethical and responsible in carrying out justice. i am sick and depressed over this entire experience and would like to find other women like me to discuss how to address not only the injustice handed down but all of the manipulation of me, the blatant lies contained in the police reports that have gone uninvestigated and the violations of my rights by our judicial system throughout this process. i need help. my boyfriend was sentenced to 10 years and i’ve been flat out told “its too late. its all based on his past records”. this is a man who has a drug problem but has sincerely been working to address it and get it under control and turn his life around for over two years since his release from prison and they that easily throw him back in and throw away the key. its disgusting……
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January 13, 2013 link Erika F. from Pomona, CA signed.
January 13, 2013 link david c. from Menifee, CA writes:
After three years of marriage dealing with my ex wifes anger issues and delusional conclusions we had an amicable divorce.So i thought. I was consistent in my sons life since his birth I was paying all insurance and dental and was providing for his basic needs. when my son turned three years of age I remarried. One month later I was charged with domestic violence on her false allegations, she stated I was threatening her and attempting to kidnap my child. On my weekend I went to pick him up and she attacked me in front of him, she filed a DV and temporary restraining order. She stated he was sick and I had no rights to my visits when he is sick. I had witnesses in the car who called the cops while she was striking me the cops arrived and said it was a civil matter. The court deemed it a domestic violence case because she took a picture of her neck which had a scratch she claimed i did and i lost my 50% legal custody 35% joint physical custody. In court they gave her 100% custody and made my child support go up significantly to the point i could not afford an attorney. It has been three years of court proceedings.
I love and miss my son. Men have lost our right to be inclusive, and consistent fathers, because of our so called aggressive nature. I have been falsely accused of domestic violence due to a spiteful and vindictive ex-wife. My son is suffering under her care and recently has been diagnosed with type 2 diabetes and PTSD because she lives a sedentary lifestyle and he knows his mom has lied about me. Is their any common sense to these actions. If we would like to decrease the 79% of criminals in jails who state if their fathers were in their lives they would not have committed the amount of crimes they had.It needs to start now before more delusional monetary motivated women continue to manipulate the system voiding fathers rights within the family infrastructure..please help American Fathers need equal Justice with their children.
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January 13, 2013 link Michael O. from Scappoose, OR writes:
I have a very deceptive and vindictive ex wife who for the last twenty one years has filed false abuse alegations against me as a farger. Noe continuing as a grandparent she made a new false misrepresentation to cps and now I can have no contact with any of my grandchildren. You may call me at 503-543-2715 for more details
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January 12, 2013 link melissa k. from Loganton, PA signed.
January 12, 2013 link Someone from Bloomsburg, PA signed.
January 12, 2013 link Herman S. from Mill Hall, PA writes:
It has been 15 months that this has been going on. My wife is aa elementary school teacher. Her lesbian lover was a school teacher (until she got fired).
My wife’s lover was charged at least twice for beating up her ex and had a PFA against her.
They tried moving the girl friend into our house, but I put a stop to it. That is when they came up with the plan of telling all of these lies about me and filing a PFA on me.
My wife had a good woman Lawyer, and a woman Judge. 18 months not allowed to go to my house or my kids school. All of my stuff there with them and my in laws going through it and getting rid of my stuff and our marriage property.
The Hell that I have been going through and they have my home and the girl friend’s home. Oh forgot that the girl friend’s ex was found dead in their home and now she has that house.
A Law that was meant to protect the abuse and is being abused for selfish, people and Judges that seem to have to much power and not enough information.
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January 12, 2013 link daniel s. from San Antonio, TX writes:
my life has been ruined without any proof, based on lies and a vendictive person who I once thought I knew. Just cause money is more important. Howe can this be justice??
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January 12, 2013 link Andy S. from Chester, NH signed.
January 11, 2013 link Billie H. from Franklin, OH signed.
January 11, 2013 link Nolan S. from Petaluma, CA writes:
I am doing everything I can not to be a complete victim in an ongoing Civil Domestic Violence Case reported by my soon to be ex-wife. As I was leaving her, her final re-course was to claim domestic violence and is currently attempting to use the law as sword against me. I am in the military (deployed once)and will potentially lose everything I have worked for, for the past 12 years. What women are being given the right of control. The real victims use it correctly. The victimless women are destroying men through use of the law. I believe I will win the case placed against me however even if I should win I cannot begin to describe the amount of loss I have already suffered within the past 6 months. If I should lose then for all intensive purposes I am just a statistic. Hopefully one that will one day make a difference in this battle against the wrongly accused.
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January 11, 2013 link Someone from Bellflower, CA writes:
I am going threw the same problem as I write this down where the father of my child is using this system to keep my child from me be cause he is hurt that I want to divorce him.
April C. from Bartlesville, OK writes:
False accusations and the fact anyone can get an order ruins peoples lives.
Someone from Fort Lauderdale, FL writes:
My ex-fiancee rekindled with her former husband. As she was in the courthouse signing false restraining domestic violence order petitions against me she spoke to me on the phone saying how much she loved me and was looking forward to seeing me when I got off work. She wrote complete lies in the whole affidavit saying I “imprisoned” and “beat” here for a year. I then had to spend over 600$ to go to court and disprove her false statements after being served at my job the next day and having my weapons taken from my home.
alexandria b. from Shapleigh, ME writes:
there are enough real cases of dv…we dont need people abusing the legal system with false allegations ..there needs to be consequences to the liars making a mockery of the courts
Jarrett L. from Bowie, MD writes:
My children’s and and my personal life has been shattered by false allegations of domestic abuse and things need to change asap. I was never arrested or convicted of the crime, but simply because I agreed to a mutual “stay away order”, my public record (not criminal) is so tarnished that I now cannot find gainful employment to support my children.
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October 19, 2012 link Someone from Charlotte, NC writes:
I too was falsely accused of domestic violence. Please help
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October 19, 2012 link Lyle B. from Paradis, LA signed.
October 19, 2012 link Manjul C. from Kent, WA writes:
I was a victim of false allegations of both domestic violence and child molestation in my child custody case, I went from being my daughter’s primary parent to having very limited time with her which was strictly supervised for one year before the allegations were found to be false. However, my former spouse was not even mildly rebuked by the court for making the false allegations which resulted in great suffering for both my daughter and me. Instead, the court rewarded my former spouse with the vast majority of custody and many perks such special vacation time with our daughter. There is so much more injustice which took place in my case which can’t all be cited within this limited space. Unfortunately, there is no one to protect innocent victims of false allegations of domestic violence and child molestation in child custody cases.
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October 19, 2012 link Michael B. from Jamaica Plain, MA writes:
My wife filed a false police report out of anger. The police took my keys and gave them to her. Since then she has threatened a restraining order if I come near the house, her or my 1 year old son. I have to commute 2 hours to and from work now. I haven’t seen my son for more than an hour in the past week as she won’t allow it. Im afraid that I will miss so much of his life until my rights are established by the divorce process. I can’t access my belongings and have to pay for a house that I can’t live in. I’m living in fear that I will be arrested under false pretenses, that my reputation will suffer – she is telling everyone I am dangerous, any time I have to interact with a person in his life she has already told them that I am not to be trusted, that I can’t leave daycare with him or they should call the police – and that she will make sure the rest of my interactions with her and in turn my life is horribly difficult and painful. I am helpless and my only consolation is that I am trying to do what is fair to my wife regardless and putting my son first. My wife has unfairly written out of my own life and my sons life with the help of the current system. It’s an unspeakably awful situation and there is nothing I can do.
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October 19, 2012 link BRAD C. from San Clemente, CA writes:
My ex wife sober or drunk tells random people I am an international drug dealer, I steal, beat her for 16 years, steal money from her boutique I financed, stole her Rolex I bought her, stole all her jewelry,stole cars from my dealership sold them in Mexico the list just keeps going she and an ex fire fighter have filed Domestice violence charges against even when I worked 2300 miles away! What recourse do I have?
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October 19, 2012 link Someone from Baltic, CT writes:
This is a very important issue, the ability to claim untrue things is not acceptable and it does happen to women and men, I however (a man) believe that the courts and police are accepting of lies before learning the complete story. My story led to a padding down at an unrelated traffic stop (speeding) I had never been searched before in any traffic stop nor had I ever been arrested. There needs to be a clear message that the police have objective evidence before acting on verbiage of a criminal spouse.
Joseph L. from Jacksonville, FL writes:
Let me start by saying, “an injustice anywhere, is a threat to justice everywhere” My gilfriend was an lying angel for 8 years. Everytime we went to her Dads, for any holiday , birthday thanksgiving, Christmas. She would take 3 quick shots of bourban, as soon as she knew no one was watching. She would not have a mixed drink. Every time we would leave she would either drive drunk, or if I had to drive she would verbaly and physicaly abuse me while driving, and when getting home it went on till she wore out. I had many chances to call the police but never did. On 9/29/11 she got fall down drunk while watching / sitting with a 92 yr. old veteran. She drove home and started to slap and choke me, and I kept fending her off. I held her still and repeated, “STOP HITTING ME!” She left that night, drunk and tried to take the cat. She , her Dad, and her new male friend came and moved her out. In Feb. of 2012 she started calling both my phones and would hang up as soon as I answered, or after one ring. She finaly called a said she was wrong and sorry, and that I was her only love. This is when the heart takes over common sense. She showed up at my front door on Mothers day 5/14/12 after having a dinner with her new boyfreinds family. BOTTY CALL, that I didn’t accept. I thought there was a chance, of reconciliation . i asked her a few days later if I would see her before her birthday, She told me NO she was going on a 4 day vacation with the other guy………. I sent all of her racy, sexy, loveing emails to him , with his permission. Now it’s been 8 months since she moved out. At her Dads instructions they filed midemeanor abuse charges with the States Att. Off. i went to jail, $2500.00 bail. States Att. dropped the case. but was advised by a woman at the states attr. Off Vanessa Albaum, to go to Domestic Abuse Court and file an Injunction ( 8 months after the incedent) So far , costs $6000.00 Have filed a State Appeal, waiting. going to batters class where they get money for denying you your 1st amendment rights and actually abuseing you at the hands of the courts. I never hit or disrepected any woman in 60 YEARS, and this one false accusation has ruined my life, and made me feel distain for all women. These classes are taking a physical and mental , emotional toll, on me, to the likes of PTSD . I can’t go on.
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October 29, 2012 link Carol G. from Fayetteville, NC signed.
October 29, 2012 link Tammy S. from Eau Claire, WI writes:
This is about my son. To make a long story short, they botjh were drinking one night & doing “clowns”, a prescription drugm that is cheap, but when mixed with alcohol, can really screw you up. He took 1 & she took 3. He ways 175 lbs & she ways 95. She went nuts & ran arouhnd screaming. A hneighbor called the cop, took him to jail, tested his alcohol intake – he wasn’t drunk but did get ir underage which he did & deserved. Now she accused him of felonies, etc, was never
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October 29, 2012 link stephen f. from Mcdonough, GA writes:
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October 18,2012
Judge Ellen S. Masters
Polk County Court
255 N. Broadway Avenue
Broadway; Fiorida 33830
Re: Stephen Felder vs. Luna Ramirez
Case no. 2012-C A-002137
Dear Judge Masters:
Please find enclosed a proposed Final Judgment of Partition regarding the abovereferenced
matter. If the Final Judgment meets with your approval, please execute
same and have your Judicial Assistant forward conformed copies in the enclosed
self-addressed, stamped envelopes. Thank you for allowing me to handle this
matter by mail
If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me.
Sincerely,
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Randy Hillman
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cc: Stephen Felder
STEPHEN FELDER,
IN THE CIRCUIT COURT OF THE
TENTH JUDICIAL CIRCUIT,
IN AND FOR POLK COUNTY, FLORIDA.
CASE NO. 2012-CA-002t37
Plaintiff,
vs.
LLINA RAMIREZ,
Defendant.
FINAL JUDGMENT OF PARTITION
THIS CAUSE having come on for final hearing on the 5rt day of October, 2012,withthe
Plaintiff being present with James Fraley, who is not an attorney, and the Defendant being present with
her sister, and her attorney, Randy Hillman. After consideration of the pleadings, from the testimony of
the parties and the evidence presented, the court finds that:
1. The Plaintiff and the Defendant are the sole owners of the property described as
follows: Lot 125, HOLLY HILL ESTATES, according to the map or plat thereof as recorded in
Plat Book l23,Page 27,Public Records of Polk County Florida alWa354 Ashford Drive,
Davenport, Florida 33837.
2. ‘lhe property is not susceptible to fair and equitable partition in kinci, and a physical
partition of the property cannot be made without great prejudice to the owners.
3. The property is subject to a mortgage in the approximate amount of $114,000.00
which exceeds the fair market value of the above-described property.
4. That based on the parties being both obligated on a mortgage that exceeds the value of
the property, it best that the property be sold at a private sale.
IT IS THEREFORE ORDERED AND ADJUDGED as follows:
1. The above-described property is to be sold to the highest bidder at a private sale in
which only the Plaintiff and the Defendant may submit bids.
2. Both parties may submit their sealed bid for the property by hand delivering to the
Judicial Assistant of Judge Ellen S. Masters or by mailing, with required proof of receipt, to
Judge Ellen S. Masters, Polk County Courthouse, 255 N. Broadway Avenue, Barton, Florida
33830 a money order or cashier checks payable to the Polk County Clerk of Court within 60 days
of the date of this Judgrnent.
3. The Court will open the bids or disclose the bids of each party at a hearing that will be
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October 29, 2012 link ginger c. from Tracy, CA signed.
October 29, 2012 link Jason H. from El Paso, IL writes:
I was accused of two counts of dv. my ex was slapping me in the car after i told her it was over. she said i hit her and tried to choke her out with no marks on her at all she won the case. Not to help anymeans in trial i had a women judge. the system failed me, and alot of others it just doesn’t work…
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October 29, 2012 link Brittany M. from Merced, CA signed.
October 29, 2012 link Rudolph M. from Ocoee, FL writes:
i caught my wife of ten years cheating on me, i did nothing to her then she lied to police, and took my son and is living in a dv shelter. her statements never say anything about dv but i was arrested anyway. its the kids who suffer
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October 29, 2012 link Bryan L. from Tavares, FL writes:
victim of false accusations. this law needs to be fixed, its not fair that i have to go through all over this because i wanted a divorce. no questions asked, no marks, no harm i go to jail and she gets just what she wanted. What happened to America?
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October 28, 2012 link James S. from Sandy, UT writes:
It is an affront to real victims and must be punishable by law. This happened to me,but fortunately, with limited success on her part. It is costly and painstaking to defend.
Someone from Keystone Heights, FL writes:
Although I am in Canada – it is just as bad. My bfriend’s daughter had him arrested on sexual assault and incest even though there was no investigation done. My bfriend told his daughter that she could not move in with her bfriend and so did her mother who hte daughter purposely fought with several weeks before and purposely got kicked out of the mother’s home to which her father knew nothing about. Her mother has had custody since she was 7 and his daughter always contacted her father every other week to spend time with him. However now she claims he has been having a sexual relationship with him since she was 12. One of her claims is that it happened a year ago at the cottage they rented for the summer but yet she begged us to have her 18 bday at that same cottage this year. The night of the arrest she had texted her bfriend and her bfriend was over an hour away and called 911 who refused to give the dispatcher the daughters phone number – bcuz there is a GPS on the phone and they could locate her quicker. It took 3 hours to locate her. She knew the police were coming…she heard banging at the door and ran into her father’s bedroom to wake him up and told him she was scared of the knockng at the door. She runs to the accused but not to the door for safety knowing they were coming? She wore the same exact outfit 2 days later when I returned her things to her. REFUSED therapy and medications during the rapekit and physical exam. He has been denied bail twice now, She got her cousin to add more charges of which she can’t remember if he did anything to her or not when she was 6 or 7. Threw up on her DVD statement two weeks later (guilt) but not the night of the alleged incident. And from what I have researched all false allegations include some sort of ritual to which her is no exception.
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October 28, 2012 link Lawrence B. from Gardner, KS signed.
October 28, 2012 link Jacob D. from Champlin, MN signed.
October 27, 2012 link irene h. from Olympia, WA writes:
this should be stop. there is to many parents who our accuced of false things that cps just does not care about the kids feelings. all they care about is the money only.
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October 27, 2012 link Jeff K. from New Berlin, WI signed.
October 27, 2012 link Someone from Clovis, CA signed.
October 27, 2012 link Thomas Favreau F. from Plattsburgh, NY signed.
October 27, 2012 link Anthony P C. from Boca Raton, FL signed.
October 27, 2012 link Patrick B. from Gardner, KS signed.
October 27, 2012 link William W. from Kansas City, KS signed.
October 27, 2012 link Marie C. from Kansas City, KS signed.
October 26, 2012 link Stephen G. from Fort Myers, FL writes:
my daughter’s mother accused me of abusing her and sexually abusing our daughter because she is a heroin addict that was sexually abused by her own great grandfather when she was 2…she did this to scapegoat me as the bad parent and i have been incarcerated by perjured and suborned perjury, now the courts have granted her permission to relocate out of state with our child…
Rita B. from Gardner, KS writes:
Gardner Ks Police department is on of the worst for taking the wrong person into custody. I agree that it takes 2 persons to
create the mess and both should be charged if anyone is taken. Some women are pure evil and my son was in involved with one himself and has had his whole life taken from him, but I do believe that it will make him stronger and better as she ends up with someone who will really abuse her, It may be a while but what goes around comes around. The real victim is the baby.
October 25, 2012 link Wayne H. from Oswego, IL writes:
I’m disabled. My gf has kept my daughter from me, kept my personal belongings, making false claims against me, called DCFS to say I molested my daughter (that was unfounded), had the police investigate me for violation of the OP which is also untrue, she’s trying to hack all my accounts, she cheated on me, she’s physically and verbally abused me and everything in between. Cops said there’s nothing they can do, lawyers said there’s nothing they can do, judge said there’s nothing he can do either. Who the hell on this planet can help the person that’s really getting abused? Can’t even file a restraining order back against them. This is absolute insanity. I sit here, with my hands tied, watching this, just waiting for her next abusive move against me.
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October 25, 2012 link Someone from Lawrenceville, GA signed.
October 25, 2012 link Wardell R. from Wilson, NC writes:
My wife filed a DV complaint against me, it was dismissed. It was apparent to me she was coached. She even warned me she would do it long before she actually followed through with it. Lucky for me she emailed me the warning! I showed it to her Attorney who advised her to rescind the DV complaint. Now she wants to have me evicted out of my house and deny me my right to my kids.
I was lucky to have compelling evidence, so many others wasn’t.
isten S. from Charleroi, PA writes:
People worked very hard for domestic violence to be taken and treated seriously, unfortunately now that it is taken seriously, its become common knowledge these acts are “get what you want free and easy” tactics…Far more ppl know that they can use this as tools and weapons for selfish purposes such as revenge, custody leverage, supportive services, and simple self gratification. It has got out WAY out of hand. It is the easiest and most effective way for a party to get what they want….for FREE. These acts are enabled by support groups and victims advocates. These acts are insults for those who were truly abused. There should be a burden of proof with these allegations and penalties for liars for the degree of devastation endured by the falsely accused.
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October 24, 2012 link Someone from Reynoldsburg, OH writes:
My husband was falsely accused and a CPO granted after my husband filed a motion for custody. There was zero contact thirty days prior to filing the CPO, and was filed five days after being served with the motion from the jurisdictional county. The County the CPO was filed in did not care that the Petitioner failed to list the pending custody case, failed to list the current CPO against the petitioner and refused ALL evidence to show the petitioner is the violent, irrational, mentally ill and difficult one, the police reports and court documents to show this, the phone and text records to show her constant contact amidst constant requests to stop and merely stated, the petitioner was not on trial. Petitioner did not have a single police report, arrests record or court proceeding to prove her claims and yet she received a FIVE year CPO against my husband in which they illegally added his daughter to, incorrectly stated his dob and listed NO identifying information. They also gave the petitioner rights to contact my husband via email (which we quickly shut down along with phone numbers and adding GPS logs so no other false accusations could be made). My husband was never arrested nor did the police continue an in estivation as she had no proof of threats made, as she had claimed, yet my husband was guilty in the eyes of the magistrate before he walked into court. He was legally castrated from his daughters life by the courts who refused to listen to evidence! This needs to stop!
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October 24, 2012 link Dedra D. from Enid, OK signed.
October 24, 2012 link Chad W. from Waterford, MI writes:
I fell prey to this so my ex could divorce me and be with the man she was cheating on me with. She then tried to claim child abuse as well. I was left destitute and homeless with a public defender who made no effort whatsoever.
Elizabeth B. from Sumas, WA writes:
A “temporary” restraining order has allowed a manipulative mother to keep a father from his child even after he fought for 3 years and finally got to see her, she retaliated against a report of abuse from her own child to CPS and filed a restraining order although he lived over 400miles from the courthouse and was newly employed at a company that offered higher pay than his last position and missing work could result in loss of his job, and at the very least loss of wages and he is required to pay his child support before his rent no matter how much he earns that month despite the fact that he has two other children to support in his home and this takes away from them, so now where is the justice in that? How is it okay that after thousands of dollars spent on legal battles, and immesurable stress, and emotional harm to his wife and children in the home that this woman can take his daughter from him with only 4 days notice and he cannot do anything for 1 year?